Kendrell’s Journey to Independence
When Kendrell was living in an Adult Family Home (AFH), it became clear that he did not require that level of care. While the setting provided support, it also limited his ability to fully express himself and build independence. Recognizing this, his care team recommended working with a housing counselor to help navigate applications and explore apartment options in the community.
The housing search proved challenging. Long waitlists and limited affordable housing options made it difficult to secure a place locally. Ultimately, Kendrell made the decision to move to New Jersey where he had family while continuing to pursue housing opportunities. For four months, he lived in a hotel, an experience that brought significant stress and uncertainty.
Then came a turning point. The care team learned that Kendrell’s name had reached the top of a housing waitlist. Knowing how critical timing was, they immediately contacted the housing counseling provider to ensure he would not miss this opportunity. Without hesitation—even the day before Thanksgiving—the provider stepped in to help.
Kian, the housing counselor, quickly went to work. She assisted Kendrell with the lease process, secured vouchers so he could obtain essential household items, and helped coordinate the many details involved in setting up a new apartment.
Kendrell shared: “I was happy to have Kian in my corner. She was very helpful, and I was not very nice in the beginning. I was under a lot of stress. All I needed to do was get a flight back to the area. Kian helped with the rest. She made the whole process easy. I didn’t have too much to worry about.”
With support in place, Kendell returned, signed his lease, and began building a home of his own. Now settled into his apartment, Kendrell is experiencing greater independence and self-expression. While he acknowledges that independent living comes with new responsibilities, the stress he once felt has eased. “Things are not easier, but I am not as stressed.”
He was surprised by how much effort it takes to set up an apartment—how much it truly takes to make “your home a home.” One of his biggest challenges has been adjusting to having less hands-on support than he did in the AFH. Still, he recognizes the value of this growth.
When asked what stable housing means to him, Kendrell didn’t hesitate: “It means everything. Being in a place is more beneficial for me to gain independence. I felt like I was held back at the AFH because I couldn’t really be myself.” He also shared his appreciation: “I really appreciated the work and effort from Kian and my care team in helping me get a place.”
For others considering housing counseling, Kendrell offers this advice: “Don’t be afraid to look into housing counseling. If you need help, take advantage of the opportunity.”
Kendrell’s journey highlights the power of teamwork, timely intervention, and housing counseling support. Today, he is not only housed, but also building a home, growing in independence, and living life on his own terms.
